IN HIS third Cinemalaya entry, filmmaker David Corpuz tackles the cultural taboos that shape the queer Filipino experience in his full-length film “Tayo Lang Ang Nakakaalam” (Only Known to Us).
The story begins with Bong (Miguel Odron), who is gravely ill and being cared for by his loved ones. Neil (Martin del Rosario) is introduced as Bong’s longtime close friend, but is later revealed to be his romantic partner.
Despite fears rooted in social norms and stereotypes, their relationship remains strong amid difficult circumstances.
After spending a significant amount of time in the hospital, Bong is discharged and returns home with his parents, Gloria (Yayo Aguila) and Benjie (Epy Quizon). Neil, meanwhile, insists on caring for him despite his own struggles and commitments.
The film offers an intimate and realistic look at the struggles faced by queer people living with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) within a flawed healthcare system, as they navigate the uncertainty of illness and the prejudice surrounding it.
One of the film’s strongest aspects is how it challenges assumptions about religious and traditional families. Bong’s family offers a refreshing portrayal of characters who go beyond merely tolerating queer relationships, responding with acceptance and care.
The film’s use of somber piano and guitar pieces reinforces its melancholic and anticipatory atmosphere. Even in lighter moments, the soundtrack remains consistent with the film’s overall tone.
The film also succeeds in raising awareness about HIV in the Philippines through an intimate, hard-to-ignore story, while confronting prejudice through the unconditional, grounded love between Neil and Bong.
However, it fails to develop the dynamics of their relationship before Bong’s illness, limiting the audience’s understanding of the history and depth of their bond.
Still, the film succeeds in portraying the struggle and, despite it, the strength and authenticity of a love that perseveres through difficult times.
“Tayo Lang Ang Nakakaalam” offers a glimpse into the lives of people who seek to live authentically and fully while remaining constrained by secrecy, serving as a reminder that even in despair, love endures.
“Tayo Lang Ang Nakakaalam” also won Best Sound, Best Cinematography, and Best Ensemble Performance. Del Rosario won Best Performance of a Lead Actor for his portrayal of Neil. Lianne Therese G. Espiritu
